What a woman wants๐Ÿ’ญ๐Ÿ”’

T- I’m breaking up with this Man, he doesn’t know how to treat me better. Yesterday was our anniversary, he didn’t even remember, what should I do with a man who doesn’t even know how to make me happy? It’s not always about Money, yems I’m really breaking up with him this time.

Y- Toke calm down, two wrongs don’t make a right you know, let’s just be patient with him.

T-But till when?

This was a conversation I had with my friend Toke, You see Toke is every Man’s dream girl, A definition of Ravishing beauty, She’s got that tan complexion and her character is second to none. She has that luscious figure and can be a great support system. But Toke keeps nagging about her man. They met during her youth service period and they hit off immediately.

He was loving, caring, thoughtful, they both were the epitome of God When for single folks like myself. But something changed.. Jimi got a job in a very big company and he started having less time for Toke, when asked why? He blames it all on Work. Dont get me wrong, I understand that a man can be busy, but when he is busy on cold nights.. And almost all the time? Then something is definitely wrong somewhere.

Abi what do you feel?

Hello there and welcome back to My blog โœจ I’m super exited to talk about this topic because I know you’re excited to read it too๐Ÿ˜‚How’s the week been? It’s another super duper Friday and it’s usually for Ments! What’s your plan for the weekend anyways?

If you’re new to my blog don’t forget to like and check out my other posts โ˜บ๏ธYou know I’m here because of your deepest thoughts ๐Ÿ’ญ ๐Ÿ˜‰

Back to our Topic shall we?

The saying that Men come from Mars and Women from venus is not far from being the truth. Because We think differently. Men think logically but women tend to think Emotionally. To make a relationship work, it requires a whole lot of effort and mutual respect. Women are really divine beings that when I look around.. I simply say this favourite saying.. God dey Create! ๐Ÿ˜˜

Some people think it takes too much to please a woman but in retrospect, it takes Your thinking and heart to satisfy a woman. You’re probably wondering why I said thinking? Well it’s not so far fetched. Firstly, you have to have an idea of your own type of woman,I said have an idea because you can’t fully understand women ๐Ÿ˜‚ know what makes her happy, sad, in between, Know this and know peace โœŒ๏ธ

Know her soul๐Ÿ’–

Women love attention! If you want to make your relationship work with a woman.. Give her attention, now speaking of attention, it can mean different things, can mean listening to what she’s telling you, asking about what she wants, talking to her, calls, chats, random texts, being thoughtful.

A woman would fall in love more with a thoughtful guy than one who isn’t, you want to be a thoughtful guy? Just listen. Women always leave hints about what is wrong with them, either emotionally, financially or physically. If she’s having a bad day, trust her to want to call you and rant about it, it’s your job as a partner to LISTEN ๐Ÿ‘‚. Stop trying to solve her issues immediately she’s telling you, stop looking for solutions so the rant can end. Allow her to finish talking, sympathise with her, make her feel cherished then from there you can go on to finding the value of ‘Y’

Trust me, this would only make her see you like a safe haven to come talk to when she has a bad day. Because she trusts you to listen.

Make out time to go on dates! Welcome to Nigeria, Nigerian guys will tell you they are busy hustling they don’t have Time to go out.. Sorry o! Hustler of life, if you know you’re hustling and you’re so busy then why decide to keep a lady? Ladies love attention! You either give it or leave it for someone else to give. Don’t be hoarding anty like a palliative and be denying her the pleasures of feeling cherished. Go out with your woman, make memories!! Fun fact: If at all you guys fall out along the way, Your memories might just be the ingredient to bring it back together. Not all the time, come over, come over.

Great ideas for dates can be researched on Google but here are few๐Ÿ‘‡

  • Movies
  • Lunch dates
  • Dinner dates
  • Beach
  • Picnic
  • Shopping
  • Tours of beautiful locations you both have never been to(within and outside your premises)
  • Learning dates (library, museums, etc)
  • Attend workshops on skill acquisitions together.. No be everytime food, food ๐Ÿฒ ๐Ÿ˜‚
  • Food dates (eating in restaurants you’ve both never tried)
Dates spice up your relationship ๐Ÿฅ‚

There are many more ways to show your woman you care about her which would make her stick around.

Compliments please!! ๐Ÿ˜ Women make a lot of effort to actually look attractive. Which is what you saw that you just had to make her your babe right? Tell her how gorgeous she looks! either on makeup or not, pay attention to that tiniest detail as the little fashion band she’s wearing on her wrist. It makes her feel appreciated! โ˜บ๏ธ Even when she looks terrible, probably tired still attempt to humour her by telling her how corny but beautiful she looks. This Male Gender sha, Don’t you know compliments go a long way to a woman’s heart? Why do you think women fall for what they hear? Compliment her at the chance you get. It’s not easy to be a woman. Don’t say she looks nice.. Go hard! Tell her she looks Ravishing! And please say it like you mean it.. Not saying it like you’re just testing to see if what Deepest thoughts told you would work ๐Ÿ˜‚

Stare into her eyes when you’re telling her these things

Random texts? Hell yeah! Do you want to keep her thinking about you all day? Then try random things to spice things up! Randomly text her about what you miss about her, just to let her know you’re thinking of her, if you’re not the romantic type, you could always take a clue from Google.. All it takes is a click,Voila!different cute random texts you can steal from. ๐Ÿ˜‚Although, I’d advice to keep it original because it’s a personal thing but seriously you don’t have to type 2a notes to make her happy yunno๐Ÿ™„2 sentences with her in the middle of it all is just perfect. Btw I also offer such services๐Ÿ˜…just send me a mail.

Yunno.. Its the little things that matter ๐Ÿ˜ฉ

Converse, Communicate! I believe nobody is a mind reader so don’t expect her to know why you’re withdrawn because of what happened to you from something.. Speak to her in clear words, tell her what’s wrong with you, talk to her about your dreams and aspirations, talk to her about what gets you off and on! If you’re having a disagreements it’s normal. Don’t go a full day without at least a text to know whatever happens, you still got her and she’s still got you. I’m always baffled at how you’ll claim to love someone but you can go 2 days without reaching out! Na wa o๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ™„

Communicate frequently, even if you’re the busy type, as long as you weren’t busy when you met her the first time till when she became your woman, you’re not too busy to spare some minutes to talk on phone, or chat..let her know if something is wrong with you, she’s not a mind reader. Another thing is, if she sends her pictures to you.. Tell her how beautiful she looks, don’t just say they’re nice and keep quiet.๐Ÿ™‚

Use all available methods of communication ๐Ÿ™‚

Make sure you are both empowering each other, Empowerments can come in different ways, either in teaching, learning, giving, learn new things together and know how to correct her without making her feel worthless because she doesn’t know something you know or because you’re better in a aspect than her. women know how to read these things. Listen to her observations,

Sports is a great start ๐Ÿ’ฏ

Financially, I can’t really say so much here because ๐Ÿ˜‚Women like money, yes I said it! If you’re actually lucky enough to get a woman who doesn’t ask you for things, please make sure you give her without she asking. Says a whole lot about you but you won’t know. I understand that you might not be financially buoyant but out of the little you have, you can always get her something, it doesn’t have to be on an occasion. Those little gifts that says (I was thinking of you) actually matters a lot. It just shows you’re thoughtful and can do better if given the opportunity.. Infact, talk to her about your status financially, it’s not your job to give her money because you both aren’t married yet, but yeah so what if she needs it? Don’t call her names because she’s asking you for money. It’s a normal thing.

Its better to tell her how things are for you so she knows what to not be expecting and what to be expecting.

If you are just trying to make ends meet, and not ready for a relationship yet, it’s perfectly understandable! Make that money and come to my blog to read again on how to keep ๐Ÿ˜Šโ˜บ๏ธ๐Ÿ˜˜

Invest, don’t save you’ll have more money to spend! โ˜น๏ธ

On a final note, Remember!!

Remember my friend Toke from earlier? Her man is bad at remembering matters of delicacy such as their anniversary and little things, it makes her feel as dou, he doesn’t care. Remember important dates to the both of you, keep to your promises and Remember to always show love to your Woman. She would only treat you the way you set the tone for her to.

Remember Important dates and celebrate together ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿฅ‚

And with that, we’ve finally come to the end of this lengthy topic ๐Ÿ˜ฉ๐Ÿ˜ฉ How was it? Which haven’t you been doing right? Drop it in the comments section below ๐ŸŽค

Ps: All my observations have been made from tremendous amount of reading and shared real life experiences from Men and not women who have tried this and it worked for them. ๐Ÿ˜‰

They say it takes two to tango, so I’ll be doing a sequel on The Men’s version ๐Ÿ˜Who’s excited? ๐Ÿ’ƒ ๐Ÿ’ƒ ๐Ÿ’ƒ ๐Ÿ’ƒ ๐Ÿ’ƒ ๐Ÿ’ƒ

Til next Friday..

Cheers to the good life of Love ๐Ÿฅ‚

Olayemi ๐Ÿฆ‹

Don’t forget to drop em comments ๐Ÿ’•

The Mind Journal 1

Many people ask me why I blog, Well why not? I enjoy writing, especially when I have to write from my thinking, my experience or people’s experience, it’s a hobby I just enjoy doing.

You know how we ๐Ÿฅ

Hello there, welcome back again to my blog๐Ÿค— You’re a darling for even coming on here, its 6am on a Wednesday Morning and I’ve got this topic planned out that I want to blog about.. Its been on my mind way too long. But before we go into that, permit me to ask you a reflective question. What do you usually find yourself thinking about? I mean subconsciously you’re already thinking about this thing. Might be a person, A feeling, How to get money, how to get more customers, how to live a great life, Your problems, and the list goes on and on…

The thing is we all have what makes us different, what makes us special, What we encounter in our journey in life, We bear different names and come from different backgrounds. So in its entirety, We’re different people.

So I was sitting in the bus the other day, and I was wondering how the universe brings people together, I mean people meet other people each day, get talking and all of that, I was sitting between 2 people in that bus and they both were on social media with their earpiece plugged in. (Not that I peered into their phones that’s rude) I just knew. Don’t ask me how๐Ÿ˜‚. And I was just looking ahead of wondering having crazy thoughts, thinking how they who both seem uninterested to talk or say a word, will react if I start watching phonography with the sound on. ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐ŸคฃJust think about it ๐Ÿค”

They’ll be the looks, the mind judgement, Hissing Preharps, I might even get scolded from those at the back ๐Ÿ˜‚but them beside me, they might even ask me to put it off. Some might laugh, abuse, and all of that.

Continue reading “The Mind Journal 1”

The Mid Re-welcome ๐Ÿคฃ

Hey there! it’s been decades since I published a new post ๐Ÿ˜‚well not because I don’t want to, but because I’ve been pretty preoccupied with too much, Was going to switch from WordPress to WIX, because it’s pretty cool and gives more advantage for the free part, but apparently it’s not so hitch free so I kinda was in a dilemma. Left all for a while, needed the refreshment and since that’s settled. Here we are!!!

If you are new to my blog๐Ÿ‘‡

Hallo! Pleased to meet you here, its exhilarating as I like to say, so grab a bed and a bowl of popcorn.

As always, Whenever I want to write something, I’m always on edge, the ideas pop into my mind during those quiet times and I start to develop my content in my head.

But when it comes to writing it out, I don’t know why somewhere in my subconscious I get hand-tied, (if that’s even a thing) ๐Ÿ˜‚ I’m thinking of reasons why people won’t get enticed to read it, how to get the perfect blending and structure in what I’m writing, a while lot of things running through my mind I end up not writing anything..

If you’re like me, you’ve gone through this before, I guess the answer is Stop worrying and just write.

Write as it comes, write as it appears, write how you think or what you feel… Just write all you can because it usually ends up being structured.

As the Title suggests, it’s A Mid Re-welcome post ๐Ÿ˜‚funny right? I mean who leaves their blog totally and come back to Re-welcome people?

So it’s going to be a beautiful November ๐ŸงกAlready smells like sea water, hats and sunshine โ˜€I mean I already forsee lots of cute people together, and the sounds of awwns and ohhs, and you know those mushy stuff. ๐Ÿ˜…Might be a November to remember ๐Ÿ˜Œ

I promise to keep you updated regularly. Let’s just say I’ve managed to draw up a schedule and hence, New Blog post each week!! Is somebody excited? ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ

Not to make this too long or anything but is there anything you would like me to talk about? Anything relating to something deep, that stirs your emotions as a person,because you know Deepest thoughts is the blog name Afterall.

Friendly advice here; Do what makes you happy this November ๐Ÿงก

Yours as always

Olayemi ๐Ÿฆ‹

Lots of love ๐Ÿงก

Just before you Rush off, do remember to drop that comment and of course, check out my other posts


At a point in your life, you’ve faced this.., maybe you’re still facing it.. Or about to… Its OK to be sad, its okay to cry, it’s ok to feel alive but dead.. Its okay if you don’t see happiness in what you do.. It just that hollow feeling.. That extrinsic emotion that brews in your heart.

It’s not proper to dwell on it, Motivational speakers like myself would advice you not to.. But what if that thing that gives you happiness, is the very thing that makes you gloomy?

I don’t have an answer for that, but I guess you do..

Till next time… With all my venetration


As a woman, do you even know your worth?

Thank you for coming back here to read my blogโœจโœจโ˜บ๏ธ if you’re a new acolyte, Welcome ๐Ÿ˜Š. Not many people can see beyond the societal norm as you did. It’s an honour ๐Ÿ˜‡Hoping you grabbed your popcorn? It’s gonna be a long ride.

It’s Tuesday morning and I’m lying down on my bed.. Thinking of what to write about next.. Afterall there’s always something init? ๐Ÿ™„

So earlier today I watched a YouTube video and got inspired to talk about A woman’s worth. But before we proceed I’ll like to share that God gave every woman 3 things.. INSTINCT, INTUITION, GUT! Trust these 3..they hold the reigns in finalizing what’s true or not.

Curiosity gets the better of me when I see ladies or hear stories of women in toxic, unhealthy relationships.. I want to know why? What’s holding them down from leaving?

My mum always tells me, that there’s always a sign, A signal.. That would tell you the kind of relationship you’re committing yourself into.

Commitments sha๐Ÿ˜‘

It’s sad that not every girl before growing into the woman they would be have the adequate guidance that would set them straight on the journey of life. This is the reason why you don’t know your worth. Not to sound like a relationship expert because I’m not, but I know that respect begats respect.. A man would only treat you the way you treat yourself.

Let’s say, Temi has gone through a lot in life, lost her parents at 12years old, struggles to make ends meet, then she meets a guy today and she tells him all about her, Temi hasn’t really found herself, so she goes on to tell the guy how she feels insecure, and worthless and how hard life has been, not f once does she say something great about herself. This guy seeing opportunity, tells her all the sweet words Adam didn’t even tell Eve, lavsihes her with praises and all… Temi feels like she’s finally met her match made in heaven. Along the line this guy starts showing his true color, (they always do) starts with the violence, disparaging remarks about Temi’s whole life, brainwashes her into actually believing she’s not worth much and he’s the only one that can accept her. Now Temi didn’t find herself before committing into this kind of relationship, all she needed was someone to love her and make her feel special.

Now finding yourself doesn’t mean been choosy.. Finding yourself simply means having your own kind of personality, what you like, what you don’t like, how you carry yourself, how you love yourself, Your values, Your principles, Your Style, Your substance!

No guy is going to marry a just anyhow woman, yuno why? Because he doesn’t want to rear just anyhow children.

As a woman we should not always be hungry for attention.. Take time to study what kind of being you are? One of the best ways is to also get closer to God, ask for his guidance to lead you on the right path.

Guess what? When you finally discover your Values and substance, Trust me you he (the man) will step up!

Never let your thoughts be shambolic

A woman who knows her worth would go into a relationship with goals.. Because once those goals aren’t met then what’s the game we’re playing?

I didn’t intend for this post to be so long.. My apologies ๐Ÿ˜‚ let my keyboard rest, I’ll like to say something “Sex would overcloud your judgement” #thinkaboutit๐Ÿ˜’

Don’t just be a fine girl, Be a fine girl with class and don’t take bullshit from nobody.. Because you know your worth.

That was a long one.. Did your popcorn finish? ๐Ÿ˜œ

Till next time, I hope you as a ๐Ÿ‘ฉ end up being known for your Standards.

Maybe I should write a piece on men? There are Afterall, 2 sides to a watermellon ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜

Let me know what you think and don’t forget to like, follow me, and drop your comments.


Friendships And You ๐ŸŒŸ

One if the things I’ve always known from my tots.. Is I’m not really much of a friendship person… Why? I don’t know.. Guess they don’t just come.. Of course I used to think.. Maybe I’ll grow older.. And have lots of friends and we’ll always have fun, go out, yunno.. Those cute imaginations that never really came to pass.. .. Sure I did have friends. Still do…..

But just not with all the pictorial references I had back then.. My mum used to think I was anti social.. . She probably still thinks so..While growing we moved to new places a couple of times.. So I guess I wasn’t able to keep those friendships long term.. Its sad really. If you’re like me.. I’m sure you’re connecting to this.. I wrote this just for you.. Its OKAY not to be everywhere and not know everybody .. Stop tryna be what you’re not..

Of course I wish I was like those other kids.. With friends that they hang out.. Make memories, do sily things, make youth friendly mistakes…. But it just doesn’t happen.. So with this.. I’d say, Good friends are really hard to come by.

Not everyone can put up with your shades of crazy you know..

If you know you have them, maybe 1.if you’re lucky maybe 2..or 3..or more.. Hold them close, treat them right.. Love them with all your heart.. Because Good friends that really care about you, and don’t see you as a competition, instead see you and want you to be prosperous.. Want to grow together.. For better..those friendships you can always reach out to if you have a issue.. Even if it’s a family issue, they’ll keep your secrets, dry your tears, laugh with you while crying with you,

Those are the real friends…Don’t ever take them for granted.. Ever.. If you were before, take 3 steps back and rethink… Who knows how many more days we have left on earth? Many friends after the death of the other.. Begin to regret not showing how much they really did care for the other.. Don’t fall in this category.

Friendship really, is the best kind of feeling …

Probably you’re different, you get friends but these friendships don’t last long…. You always end up losing communication.. I can say you’ve not found that destined friend of yours.. Keep searching.. You can have lots of acquaintances but make sure you keep a small circle of intimate friends..while searching.. Don’t also be a third wheel in a already built friendship of 2..else you’ll hurt your own emotions. Once you feel this way.. Cut it out!

There are different kind of friendships… Or so I’ve heard.. School friends, Home friends, book friends, family friends, friends of friends,Food friends, Money friends, occupational friends, … Lol. A whole lot.. I only describe and subscribe to BEST FRIENDS friends that can be in all this categories..they can be any type of friend depending on how you’re feeling… When you eventually get these kind of friends, You’ll know it was always meant to be, because friends are always there. Rain or Shineโœจ

Dogs are loyal and are ideally the best friends.. But they can’t talk.. Don’t kid you.

Generally talking about friendships.. I can’t relate.. I don’t even have childhood friends… Lol but hey, that’s OK too, you ever have that gloomy look on your face when you see pictures and the sily way friends do together? Yeah me too.. 5000miles away from the acquired friendships you have? It’s ok too.. In the end I think we all just want to be happy and importantly make good memories so at the end of our youthful spring, when we can’t do those spontaneous stuff.. We can look back and be glad we did live the life with beautiful memories to show..

I cannot overemphasize the usefulness and how important it is to keep good friends… I cannot.. Because you already know.

I should get going now..i hope at a point while reading.. You thought of your friends and maybe.. Just maybe you smiled.

I challenge you to send your friends.. An appreciation note for being in your life.. They deserve it.

I love you ๐Ÿ–ค

Till another time..

Olayemi is always here.


Dear Ex..

Inserts Clean Bandit I miss you๐ŸŽต

Hey there, welcome back to my blog โœจif you’re reading this.. I want you to know that I really appreciate you โค๏ธit’s not easy to click on a link to be directed to another app entirely…. God bless you.

I’m sure at one point in our life, we’ve had exes.. Still going to have, and probably currently about to have ๐Ÿ˜‚.. So I was really thinking about how someone meets another person, becomes attracted to that person, become so closely related that you can tell all that goes on in their day. It’s a real beautiful feeling.. The emotion that it entails in connecting.. In really connecting to another person’s soul.. Tragically, falls in love with that person and after a while.. They don’t seem to be the same anymore… They don’t seem to have that light and spark anymore… Then 2 souls disconnect.. And we the friends of the individuals call them exes..

Ever tried looking into a broken mirror?

If you’ve dated someone before.. But it didn’t later work out well enough… Its absolutely fine

What’s not fine is seeing them in a bad light and thereby beginning to discuss about them in a very disparaging manner. You know one thing about matters concerning the heart? It’s really out of the human control… Just the way you don’t get to decide who your parents will be… Same way you don’t get to decide who your heart beats for… So don’t hate.. Just accept that’s the way it was supposed to be.

This goes out to those hurting and still recovering from paralysed hearts… It’ll take time but I promise you it’ll be fine… And guess what? That heart you think is paralyzed? Will be up and beating for another person…now in another sense, you’ve passed through an experience that’ll probably make you wiser, more knowledgeable or leave you just the way you were..

…….. Zzzz

If it leaves you wiser.. That means you’re step closer to really discovering yourself which is the whole point of the real world.. So embrace your feelings.. Pick lessons and make adjustments.. Who knows.. You’re probably what someone somewhere is praying for. So this was to further sharpen your abilities.

This goes out to the friends we dated… I call them friends because falling in love with this person was absolutely unintentional. These are the kind of relationships that hurt the most because not only do they lose their love but the friendship…Dear Ex friend… We miss you.. The fun and all of it.. But moving forward would always be the end result of any action. So take a deep breath and smile โ˜บ because now you’ve known what you didn’t before..

It’s Progress…

I dont really want to make this long… But this goes out to the exes still trying to make it work. Shout out to you!!! This has got to be the second hardest thing after stone. I know you want that person back… But don’t because of this lose your own vision… Try your best and if it still doesn’t work.. Just let it be, don’t sweat it. Shit happens but you’ve still got your life to live and it’s going to be a good life.

If I ๐Ÿ˜ you was a promise…

Finally, Dear Ex, Current Ex, Future Ex,

I’m sure that relationship made you realize things about yourself.. So work on you, love you, and chill till someone lucky comes around.

Cheers to the new you๐Ÿฅ‚


Dreams and failed Aspirations.

Top of the Day to you there, Welcome back to my blog โœจ I’m sincerely really grateful to everyone that commented, liked, and shared my last post.. Ya’all are the real mvpsโ˜บ๏ธ… If you’re a newbie here, Hi! Welcome to Deepest Thoughts it’s exhilarating so grab a sit.

Sips tea

So we’re talking about Dreams and aspirations.. This has really had a grave impact on every human born of a woman… Lol I know. I said born of a woman because aren’t we all?

Growing up, we all have that great aspiration of what we would love to become, A lawyer, A doctor, An actor, Artist, Artisan, Dancer, you just name it! We grow and so does this dream we hold so dearly in our hearts, hoping and wishing that one day, this dream would become a reality.

Unfortunately, it doesn’t always work out the way we planned it, either because of the forces of the world, or either because we actually failed to take correct action at the required time. This further makes us worry, sad, depressed, and even rubbishes any glint of happiness we might have.

Even our parents had their own dreams and aspirations, your dad, your mum, didn’t grow up thinking oh why not be a federal worker? Or oh I want to be a housewife, (don’t take offence if these are your parents jobs, it’s just an Illustration) they too had that mind-blowing, jawdroppping dream, that scintillating and picturesque future they aimed for.. But life happens while we aren’t watching and they found themselves in another place entirely.

Dreams are sweeter while in a jacuzzi

There’s something called being intentional about what you want,you know that favourite saying that what you want is within your grasp? It’s not entirely true, but it will be once you become intentional about it, once you begin to understand how life happens to people, once you begin to learn from the mistakes of your predecessors.

Growing up, I wanted to be so many things, A lawyer, A lyricist, A Presenter, An Actress(don’t dare laugh ๐Ÿ˜‚) A dancer even if I couldn’t really dance, A ballerina(I learnt barley in school for 1year I sucked๐Ÿ˜‚) Growing up further I began to see I could be an entrepreneur, I learnt make up, boom.. I’m a makeup artist, I learnt Marketing from books, (oh I’m still learning dou.)

You know everything just sumed up to different pieces of me, and what I could actually be.. But life began to happen and I sat down to ask myself, what exactly is my talent? Out of all I wanted to be.. I single handedly picked 1..A Presenter, because my talent is my voice. Now I know you’ve probably heard that oh you can try everything and see which works out.. Lol time is going while you’re trying everything and hopefully you don’t end up an adult still trying to find their feet in this big home we call earth.

It’s a long road, and mother nature isn’t always friendly

Sometimes, we have big dreams and aspirations that we really might believe it’ll work out, but not matter how we try, the universe just doesn’t care about our efforts, it’s advisable not to waste time sulking and develop a “PLAN B”

A PLAN B is just another option that you can explore to yield you towards that greatness you’ve always dreamt about, so if you want to be doctor but tragicly, you failed in med school, you keep pushing, but all the same set up a plan B, not thinking that hey you won’t eventually get what you’re aiming for. But in the regards of oh this isn’t working, let’s see what else I’ve got in my box.


Not to begin to sound like a motivational speaker but maybe I kinda am๐Ÿค” Big dreams are beautiful to have, you imagine how lush your life would be, your mainson, your cars, the loyl, your children perhaps? Don’t you just love to dream? I know I do, and I’m most perfect at imaginations ๐Ÿ˜‚

So this goes out to you, You this Beautiful soul, reading this post, I’m reaching out to you, To keep believing in yourself, and be intentional about that dream of yours, Start something that would take you 1 step closer to achieving this dream, and remember to have a plan B just incase of incasities.

And also to you who has been struggling, trying to make yourself a better person, trying to make ends meet, trying and hoping that one day this would all pay off, it will. The burden may be weighing you down but seriously, it’s won’t be a burden once you begin to accept it as a challenge.

You were created with a talent, search, explore, and assert your talent โœจFailed Aspirations? Definitely not going to be a sad story to tell.

Recently I watched a Ted talk video of Jenn Im, where she said as I quote “You have to be your biggest motivator because the world won’t give it to you each day as a snack”

There’s always the unsure steps and strong finishing to every success story.. So hey what’s yours gonna be like?

Hope you enjoyed reading this post as much as I enjoyed writing it?

It’s not always flowers and sunshine everyday, but at least we’ll get good days.

Smile, because the joke is on the world ๐Ÿ—บ

Cheers ๐Ÿฅ‚

Now don’t forget to drop your amazing comments you know how much I love ๐Ÿ“– reading and responding to them. ๐Ÿ˜‰

Olayemi ๐Ÿฆ‹

When life gives you cracks? MAKE CRACKERS!!

hey there

Storms are strong winds, that can blow just about everything and anything in its path… Life comes in this obscure form.. Takes its chills and torns on you..

Happiness is not free.. Don’t be deceived, there’s always a price to pay… For everything you get, you’ve given… The pain associated in life is something that doesn’t always gladden my heart to talk or write about.. But that’s why my blog is called deep thoughts… Because these are most probably the thinks we think of.. In the days we are down.

Thank you for coming back here to read my blog.. I’ve taken a while to post this.. Because I had a particular essential presence I needed.. Turns out it wasn’t really necessary.. So now we’re here

Pain comes in different colors, sizes, durations and forms… One thing that is always constant is it never lasts… Have you found yourself in a situation that you subconsciously or perhaps, consciously start to wonder why exactly God singlehandedly picked you from the room of angels and said it was time to live on earth? You’re not alone.. For they’re are many others just like you.. Thinking this same way…


At every humans life.. We might go through hardships, when it seems all hope tarnished, nothing to live for, nothing good to see, nothing to do, we become encumbered with this load of thoughts… That further damage what’s left of ourselves.. I want you to pick up those damaged pieces… And start to fix them together.. You’re probably asking me why?

Oh there’s not a lot of reason why… Its just that for every problem this life throws at you.. Some one somewhere is getting double.. And guess what? That person is still living! So why not keep fighting till you win?

Maybe you’ve spent too much time dwelling on your insecurities, how your future would be.. How your whole life would turn out… Its humanly.. But know that you’re not alone… So take a page back and begin to dwell on the positive sides of your life.. I’m sure you have 1…think deep!

Life walls have got cracks… They always do.. And through these cracks.. Different alein creatures could come in.. They’ll make you uncomfortable, and throw you off balance.. Stand firm.. Mix the flour And fill up those cracks… For when the pathway is closed… There is never any movement.

Can i say your life is what you make it?

so what are you making it

Guess not.. Because sometimes your live depends on the circumstances you find yourself in… What happens when you find yourself in these circumstances are what we call your own MAKING

choose the best decision today,Make Yourself Happy

Be True to You


Let’s talk about the famous I love you Cliche!

Apologies to anyone I’ve ever told I loved and later realised I really didn’t..chilllax, it’s only been 1 guy. ๐Ÿ˜…

I just wonder how people use the word so carefreely like it’s a slang of some sort, if you don’t feel a thing for someone why tell them you love them?

The butterflies in your stomach aren’t fluttering so what’s the deal? The youths of today believe only in lies and deceit so I’m frankly not surprised.

The sad thought is its now a societal norm.. We don’t fall in love anymore, we fall in money, fall in looks, body sizes, colours, sexuality, what happened to seeing a person for who they really are? And loving the personality behind those flaws?

Guess I’ll have to lay my keyboard to rest at this junction. It’s lunchtime and I may miss my meal.

Between you and myself, do people really get butterflies in their belly? I’m just asking for a friend ๐Ÿ˜

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I hope you read this in a state of equanimity.


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